Hypnotherapy for Road Rage: It Can Save Lives

03 Mar 2024

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Hypnotherapy for Road Rage: It Can Save Lives

Woman's road rage poses serious risks ****

Woman expressing her road rage. ****.

What is Road Rage?

Road rage is hostile, aggressive, or angry behavior that motorists direct towards others out of frustration or impatience. These behaviors include rude and verbal insults, obscene gestures, yelling, physical threats or dangerous driving methods targeted at other drivers, pedestrians or cyclists in an effort to intimidate them or express their exasperation.

No matter what the reason, there is never a justification for allowing yourself to take out your negative emotions on others with whom you share the road.

Whether you are late for work, driving your wife to the hospital to give birth, trying to catch the last flight out to Singapore, or just in a bad mood, provoking others while driving your car can be as deadly as waving a gun at them. You never know who the person on the receiving end of your taunts and threats is. It could be someone as prone to violence as you appear to be–someone who is carrying a gun and wouldn’t hesitate to use it against you.

As recently as February 28, 2024, a mother was shot in an apparent road rage incident while her three children under the age of 10 were in the car with her. Fortunately, the children were unharmed, but the mother, who was hospitalized, suffered non-life threatening injuries.

How Road Rage Affects Your Driving

Road rage adversely impacts both your driving skills and your judgment. When you are consumed with road rage, you operate your vehicle with less attention to, and concern for, the people and things around you. Road rage can be blinding. When anger takes over, logical thinking takes a backseat. Emotional hijacking can cause drivers to make impulsive and hazardous decisions, leading to:

Traffic violations
Increased risk of accidents
Reckless driving charges

The impaired judgment involved in road rage incidents can result in unnecessary risks and violate reckless driving laws. Reckless driving and aggressive behavior can exacerbate a volatile situation, leading to accidents, bodily injury, and significant property damage.

How Does Road Rage Differ From Reckless Driving?

While the terms ‘road rage’ and ‘reckless driving’ are related terms, they are not synonymous.,

‘Reckless driving’ refers to driving a vehicle with a conscious and intentional disregard for the safety of others. It is a broad term that includes various risky driving behaviors. From the legal point of view, reckless driving is grounds for reckless driving charges and penalties.

‘Road rage’ refers to reckless driving that is fueled by intense anger or frustration. All incidents of road rage are likely cases of reckless driving, not all reckless driving is road rage, since you can drive recklessly but not be frustrated or angry. You could be drunk, for example.

Road rage may involve hostile verbal exchanges, physical fights, and damage to vehicles or other property. It can also lead to criminal charges for reckless driving, physical assault, criminal damage, and, in extreme cases, attempted murder.

Let the Road Rage Facts Speak for Themselves

The most serious consequences of road rage go far beyond aggressive horn honking or tailgating. Road rage can escalate into physical harm to others, serious property damage, assault, and gun violence. Studies have found a noticeable rise in road rage shootings.

It’s not surprising that when you drive your vehicle while angry, you dramatically increase the risks of collisions, injuries, and fatalities.

The following statistics attribute serious injuries and deaths to road rage:

In 2023, 92% witnessed an act of road rage in the past year. (The Zebra Insurance Company )
A total of 12,610 injuries and 218 murders have been attributed to road rage over a seven-year period in the United States (SafeMotorist).
In 2022, someone was shot and killed in a road rage incident every 16 hours. (Everytown Research)
66% of traffic fatalities are caused by aggressive driving (National HighwaySafety Administration)
Road rage was responsible for about 300 deaths since 2013. (National HighwaySafety Administration)
30 murders annually are linked to road rage. (American Psychological Association)
50% of drivers respond to the careless acts of other drivers with aggressive behavior themselves (American Psychology Association)
94% of traffic accidents are caused by driver error. (National Public Radio)
37% of aggressive driving incidents involve a firearm. (AutoVantage Club)
500% increase in reported cases of road rage over the last 10 years. (CNN)

Hypnotherapy to Overcome Road Rage

Not only can road rage escalate into physical harm to others, serious property damage, assault, and gun violence, but statistics show that road rage does escalate into those dangerous behaviors.

If you or someone you love or know has experienced road rage, it is likely that you or they will be consumed with road rage again in the future. Given how serious the outcome of road rage tends to be, for those who suffer from it and those who fall victim to it, there is no good reason for allowing this behavior to happen again.

Hypnotherapy is known to be an effective means for managing and overcoming bouts of anger and rage in everyday life. Road rage is simply one form of rage that people experience. By engaging them in cognitive inquiry before putting a subject into hypnosis, the hypnotherapist can learn what past emotions, traumas and behavioral patterns associated with driving are triggered when the subject gets behind the wheel.

When the subject is taken into hypnosis, the hypnotherapist has direct and immediate access to their subconscious mind, where the root causes of their intense anger/rage reside. Using various hypnotic techniques and tools, those root causes can be identified, desensitized, and replaced with positive and empowering thoughts, emotions, desires and motivations to remain peaceful and calm while driving.

The mind works according to the Law of Repetition. To reinforce what is implanted during hypnosis, I give each subject an audio recording of it and encourage them to replay the recording often. Doing so enables them to break free from the chains of road rage and regain control of their emotions.

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