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What is Perfectionism? In short, perfectionism is striving to be flawless in every way. And for the perfectionist, making a mistake is never acceptable. Perfectionists never see errors as opportunities for learning, but as reasons for getting down on themselves or punishing themselves. A perfectionistic tennis player who misses an easy forehand might deliberately hit himself on the thigh with his racquet. An excellent player accepts the flub and immediately prepares for the next shot. A potter who demands perfection of herself might throw her work-in-progress against the wall when she notices a tiny bubble forming. It’s no surprise that perfectionists are hard to get along with. For one thing,.
In “Are You Proud of Being a Perfectionist? – Part 1” you learn: What is perfectionism? Is the notion of perfectionism well-defined? Where does the drive to be perfect come from? What are the symptoms of perfectionism? In this blog post, you discover many of the fears the perfectionist has as well as negative consequences of perfectionism. You then find out why striving for excellence rather than perfection is a better strategy. Fears Underlying Perfectionism Perfectionism is not so much about always achieving the best possible results in any endeavor; it’s more about not falling short, not failing to measure up or to be the top dog. Underlying a perfectionist’s.
What is Perfection? Perfectionism is a sly seductress. It lures us with an ennobled view of ourselves determined to get every aspect of the project perfect, down to the most minute detail. Never satisfied with ourselves for giving performances that are competent or even quite good, we strive for perfection and nothing less. Or so we tell ourselves. As if we had a clear notion of what constitutes the “perfect project” when it comes to what we are working on. What’s a perfect novel? Or a perfect painting, perfect bridge or perfect computer. Who can say? Granted, getting a perfect score on a mathematics test makes sense, since the answers to simple grade-school mathematics problems never vary. The.
What Hypnosis Is Not In the previous blog post “Hypnosis: From Wariness to Acceptance – Part 1“ the commonly posed question about stage hypnosis was raised: Do subjects choose to play along or do the hypnotic suggestions they receive compel them to comply? The fact is, being hypnotized is not relinquishing your power to the hypnotist. You can’t be made to do, say, or experience anything you don’t want to when in a hypnotic state. Your will is not paralyzed and you don’t lose your autonomy. Moreover, the depth to which you go into hypnosis and how quickly you go in, is really up to you and whether you believe.
Hypnosis as Unscrupulous For many years, the general public was very wary of hypnosis. A long history of books and movies associating hypnosis with evil doings was likely the reason. In 1894, Svengali, a nefarious hypnotist, seduces a young, naive girl in George du Maurier’s book and silent horror movie “Trilby”. In the silent zombie film “The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari” (1919), Caligari uses hypnosis to manipulate Cesare to commit murder. Over time hypnosis found its way into other cinematic genres, such as the spy comedy “Zoolander” in 2001. Fashion model Ben Stiller falls prey to an evil fashion designer whose plan is to hypnotize Stiller to assassinate the Prime.