Pigging Out: Self-Soothing or Self-Sabotage?

02 Jul 2020
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Pigging Out: Self-Soothing or Self-Sabotage?

Since late May, when many state governments relaxed their health guidelines and re-opened to some degree or other, there’s been a significant uptick in COVID-19 cases in more than 30 states. Let’s not kid ourselves. We are still living in very challenging times when incessant broadcasts of grim unemployment statistics and death tolls stoke intense fear and high anxiety. After being cooped up at home virtually 24/7, deprived of so much we enjoy doing, it’s easy to abandon relaxation techniques such as self-hypnosis, deep breathing, physical exercise, and meditation in favor of a super quick-fix to feel better fast : self-soothing with junk food and alcohol. Partying with others on.

Celebrating July 4th in 2020

30 Jun 2020
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Celebrating July 4th in 2020

  What’s wrong with this picture? Nothing, if you think back to previous Independence Days when we gathered to celebrate, connect, and consume with reckless abandon. At backyard barbecues or indoor buffets, family, friends, food, and fun have always been at the core of this major American holiday. We didn’t worry about how close we were to each other (unless somebody was coughing or sneezing a lot). Love in the Time of Coronavirus When ‘social distancing’, ‘pandemic’ and ‘self-quarantine’ became household words this winter, our everyday lives started changing in not very subtle ways, such as covering our noses and mouth when out in public.  Entering a bank wearing a.

Managing Holiday Blues

20 Dec 2018
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Managing Holiday Blues

It’s The Most Wonderful Time of the Year!  Really? Surely you’ve heard that lyric. It’s the title of the ever popular Christmas song Andy Williams first recorded in 1963. Since then, many notable crooners have regaled us with their renditions–Johnny Mathis, Harry Connick Jr., Patti LaBelle, Garth Brooks, and the Pentatonix–celebrating many of the activities associated with the Winter Holiday Season: “…parties for hosting…marshmallows for toasting…caroling out in the snow…gay happy meetings…holiday greetings…friends coming to call…” If your spirit soars as Thanksgiving nears and you remain high on the holidays through New Year’s, good for you.  Enjoy yourself to the max! You deserve it. We all do. But for too many.

Transforming Self-Doubt Into Self-Confidence – Pt 2: Devising Countermeasures

13 Oct 2018
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Transforming Self-Doubt Into Self-Confidence – Pt 2: Devising Countermeasures

Hot Buttons for Self-Doubt As you strive to attain your goals and dreams, there are bound to be times when you suffer self-doubt.  “Can I really make a living doing what I love? Am I smart enough?  Talented enough?  In my search for a loving partner, do I have the grit to face rejection, to get through the dry spells, and never give up?” Having self-doubt is more the norm than an aberration.  An estimated 70% of people experience the “imposter syndrome” at some point in their lives.  And a whopping 85% of people around the world are affected by low-self esteem. So instead of stigmatizing yourself for having it,.

Transforming Self-Doubt into Self-Confidence – Pt 1: Intro

18 Jun 2018
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Transforming Self-Doubt into Self-Confidence – Pt 1: Intro

Do you obsessively wonder whether you or your work is good enough? Do you often worry that you don’t have what it takes to succeed in your chosen field? Are you constantly afraid that you can’t have a happy marriage (and family) and make a good living doing what you love? If so, you are grappling with self-doubt. But you’re certainly not alone. It might help you to know that some of the most famous, successful, and revered artists (Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, and Vincent Van Gogh), writers (John Steinbeck, Edith Wharton, George Eliot), and even presidents (George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, and John F. Kennedy) suffered self-doubt. Obviously, that emotion.

Love is the Self-Givingness of Spirit

14 Feb 2017
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Valentine’s Day is not just a day for celebrating romantic love between two lovers. It also is a day for celebrating self-love, which Ernest Holmes defines in his book The Science of Mind as “the self-givingness of spirit”. To my mind this is an act of taking some of self and putting it into a new context and expressing in a new way. It’s like breaking off a piece of yourself to regenerate as something else that is beautiful or intelligent, compassionate, soothing, helpful, fascinating, creative, humorous, or caring. To my mind, this is how oneness becomes more than oneness. This is what unfolding is. As a recovering self-saboteur, Valentine’s Day.

Hypnosis for Kids Is Fun, Safe, and Effective

02 Feb 2017
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Hypnosis for Kids Is Fun, Safe, and Effective

Hypnosis: Relaxation That Empowers As scientific studies continue to affirm the safety and therapeutic effects of hypnosis for a broad spectrum of problems and conditions, it is not surprising that more parents are turning to hypnotherapy for help with their children’s issues.  Teaching kids how to relax, focus, and become aware of their inner experiences empowers them. In the video featured above, a recent segment on CBS news featured Los Angeles hypnotherapist Lisa Machenberg, a self-proclaimed “hypno-mom,” who began using hypnosis successfully on her own children for better sleep when they were just seven months old and continued with it to improve their sports performance. No More Risky Than Sleep That same news segment.

Make Yourself Great Again!

09 Jan 2017
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Make Yourself Great Again!

You’re Invited! Want Your New Year’s Resolutions To Stick? Come to the “Make Yourself Great Again” Free 4-Session Workshop Presented by Ellen R. Coleman, C.Ht. of MINDWORKS HYPNOTHERAPY Join Us for Our Second Session Exploring Tips, Tactics, & Tricks To Make New Year’s Resolutions Stick Who says you must start them on New Year’s? Who says: “Miss a day, it’s over, you’ve failed”? Workshop held at the Palisades-Malibu YMCA at 821 Via De La Paz, Pacific Palisades January 14, 21, and 28 from 11:30 am-12:30 pm. Call (310) 454-5591 to register by 1/13/17 at noon Limited space remains   .    

Tasty, Healthy, Quick & Cheap Holiday Treats

21 Nov 2016
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Does the title of this post seem somewhat oxymoronic to you? “No way holiday treats can be tasty AND healthy!” you say.  I disagree and I’ll provide some examples to defy that claim later in this post. Each year, starting Labor Day, like a stampede of bulls in the streets of Pamplona, come the holidays: Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Christmas, and New Year’s. Our senses are assaulted by decadent delectables loaded with bad fats, processed sugars, salt, gluten, and starch. Not just at work or at friends’, but at the bank, in the gym, and even at the gynecologist’s.  Lemon bars, spritz cookies, rugelach, chocolate fudge, and pecan sandies  are everywhere. The Devious Foodie Mindset.

Breaking With Convention

05 Aug 2016
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Breaking With Convention

The second presidential debate is next Monday, and I, for one, can’t wait.  That’s when the gloves really come off and the Donald dukes it out with Hill-Bill for the Hill. Hey, Trump!  Time to get substantive and stop with all your “I am the greatest” crap.  Besides, you’re no Muhammad Ali.  You’re more like Humpty Dumpty. Remember the nursery rhyme that begins:”Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall, Humpty had a great fall…”? I have my own rendition: Humpty Trumpty wants a big wall. Humpty Trumpty’s gonna have a great fall. All of the Democrats and  Republicans, too, Are asking the same question I now put to you: What kind of “great fall” will Humpty Trumpty have? A victory as P.O.T.U.S..